This is not a winsock incompatibility
this is not an antivirus incompatibility
IiCloud control panel has no effect
This is simply Wi-Fi sync failing in a windows environment from day one
If you are a windows user, the only solutions a availiable are:
Disable wifi sync
Or
Run a scheduled task batch file repeating every 15 mins :
Create a text file with the following entry:
taskkill /im ath.exe /f
Rename file to whateveryouwant.bat (make sure this file doesn't get moved anywhere after u create the task)
open task scheduler
create new task with a time trigger that repeats every 15 minutes, or however aggressively u want
set the action to the batch file you created
make sure you set the task to run if user is not logged on and to run with highest priveledges and to repeat daily
There "fixed"
I seriously doubt apple intends to fix this it has been a year, they want us all running osx just to run iTunes.
IF it was gonna happen it woulda happened with iTunes 11