I wanted to add to this discussion as another person having similar problems. My husband and I use (and have used for over four years) Google Calendars synced with Apple mobile devices extensively both for work and personal schedules. Since upgrading to the newest OS and having to use calendars through Google instead of the Exchange server, I now receive all the alerts for all of my calendars and all of my husband's calendars. He, however, does not receive alerts for any of our calendars. We have tweaked settings and changed multiple options (and double checked that all our preferences are set the same both on the computer side in Google calendars and on our iPhones) but this problem persists. We are not sure if this is an Apple problem or a Google problem, but we would love to have this resolved!