There is no denying the rock solid fluidity and reliability of iOS. However, you are correct in that Jelly Bean 4.1 is a step closer to iOS. The more I "play" with my Note 2, the more I like it. Granted, it's not as fluid or solid as OS, but it is leaps and bounds better than Android say 2 years ago? And, like you said, with 4.2 on the horizon, it will be a lot better....if not the best. I guess what I miss most about OS is the simplistic nature in which every task is/can be done. It required little effort to do anything/everything and was reliable in doing so. With 4.1, it's a learning curve and tasks seem to require a little more effort both on my part and the software installed. But, there is no denying that JB 4.1 is a competent system. For what it's worth, the Note 2 is more "fun" with customizable options and bigger real estate. But, again a phone is a phone is a phone. This phone, unlike my iPhone or apparently Z10, is big and not a practical alternative. However, I find myself and many others according to Samsung Note 2 sales pushing the boundaries of what we find "practical" 🙂
I will definitely research custom roms and the xda website. I have heard that alot of Android users love the fact that they can install a custom rom and really "unlock" their phone making it super customizable. But, being a former Army bratt, I was always accustomed to the "kiss" philosophy and am a little overwhelmed with the Note 2 and its stock form...much less a custom rom. LOL, I wouldn't even know where to begin. Maybe you know someone who could help me?
I will definitely keep in touch my friend. I am curious to see how you like the Z10. All of the reviews point to it being a beast of a phone with great ppi and specs. Who knows, I may end up with one myself. I did at one time have the legendary BB Curve 😉