is it possible to have a remote user on your iphone if you never set on up?

My Iphone over the last couple of months has been acting very weird- I can not turn it off, my battery dies in 2 hours, it switches screens on me in the middle of me doing something.

i have both "user processes and root user processes running all of the time

i have never set up a root user

I live with my boyfriend who has a mac - ipad and iphone- we use the same wireless network

He has vuze and bit torrent which both i cant seen to run properly as the way they are safed or locked i can not access the files - he also has vmware fusion- again i am unable to run it -

I was told by a friend to turn on my data and watch it to see which programs or applications that I have could be possibly malfunctioning- since then I have notices in my data the following:

there are ports on my connections which i have looked up and are all associated with hacking - 5353-5433-6401-5223--80- so many more I cant bare to look through all the data I have saved- I am not technology savy - the whole process of trying to figure out if this is true or even possible is emotionally and mentally draining-

in my data there are key logs some short some long- some private some public?

key logs

which have information such as -

encodin=UTF-8"?><DOCTYPEplist PUBLIC"-aplle//dtdplist 1.0//EN

key com.apple OTAcrashcopier.successfulSubmissionTime<\key>

array

after multiple list with temperature 1 through 8- which each have a list

<real>a number<real>

it says key com.apple.springboard.thermallevels key array

<key> adlogcreation date</key>

<key>metadata</key>

<dict>

<key>ADuserIntefaceLanguage<key/>

<string> en </string>

<key> adusersetregionformat<key/>

<stiring> US </string>

<dict/>

then a list of

<Key>ad scalars<key/>

<dict>

<key/> appActivationCount.com.apple.ApStore<key>

integer 1 interger

and it then does that for each one of my applications including

count maps

mobilesms

preference

mobilemail

mobilephone

mobilesafari

key appbackgroundactive time

integer 0 interger

and goes through a list of keys associated with again each of my apps

and so on and so on

another key log-

7deviceid- a bunch of letters and numbers

then

isAnonymous:True

deviceConfigID:152

trigertime: numbers

trigger ID-655363

profileld:152998

investigation ID: 0

location udatesession

timestamp:numbers

timestampend:numbers

desired accuracy:-1

cellavilable:true

wifiavailable:true

passcodeLocked:false

airplanemode: false

ttff:0

ttffGPS:0

accessoryused:false

reachability: 1

power : true

there are bunch of key logs all different

system data logs with the following

JS:its.sf6.Bootstrap.init:initialize

JS:its.defer.bootstrap._renderpage component render complete

I have in data reports and connection the words :

local remote peer

Hash

my external IP changes constantly even at home -

ROOT usr- (never mad one)

keybagd running on my root user processes- PID 1455 PPID 1 priority : 17

sandboxd- PID 1452 PPID 1

filecoordination - PID 103 PPID 1

networkd?privile PID 72 PPID 1

Syslogd PID 18 PPID 1

usereventagent PID 13 PPID 1

kernal_task PID 0 PPID )
launchd PID 1 PPID 0

plenty more

in routing tables internet (10)

destination :127 gateway:127.0.0.1

destination:192.168.1.1 gateway:0:18:39:7c:46:d9

destination:default

gateway - 192.186.1.1

gateway pdp_ip0

internet(6) which will have about 150 destinations and gateways listed at once sometimes -

destinations can be fe80::f2dc:e2ff:fe20:e5e7%en0 flag- UHLWLi gateway f0:dc_e2:20:e5:e7 (these are always changing ) sometimes they say link7 sometimes fe80::1%Io0 or 98:d6:bb:751a:f3 or b8:17:c2:28:d6:90 or 4c:b1:99e8:26:21 linl#1 0:26:8:a2:8:2f c:77:1a:a5:4:2f 6c:c2:6d:b0:21:c2

connections on my phone: I have the following categories-

in each one the number of connections constantly changes - tcp4 running the most -

udp6 and udp4 mostly look as typed below but occastionally if i check at the right time - there are multiple- and rarly have the remote port

icmp66 - even more rare that i catch that

never port numbers

These change even while i have close all apps- and am doing absolutely nothing with my phone

tcp4

remote user 17.172.232.133.442

remote user 173.194.74.121:80 -

remote user- 17.172.232.166 : 5225

udp4- local not list - *;*

remote *:*

hostname: n/a

local: *:5353

remote: *:*

hostname: N/A

udp6

local *:5353

remote *:*

hostname- N/A

local: *:55543

remote:*:0

icmp66 local *:0 and remote *:0

with hostname N/A

data logs -

localpeer ID: mobile. 1FDC29D7-2B67-5231-9375-3BDC30E405F, store name:userdictionary, modelversionhash: SAIQVUhF7208e6_gvZx_zdKx1UAzKGem3HO2pLKjgY=ubiquityrootlocation: pfubiquitylocation: 0x1ed87c50 mobile documents/com-apple[textinput/dictionaries

springboard

bbbehavioroverride :transition date should be after provided date

searrchd

indexed all records

searchd

finished getting all applications

remote hostenames from akamaitechonlogies

so much more crap but im not sure what would be more useful to get my answer- i know some of this suff is totally normal from all the research i did but i also found a lot which i am very uncomfortable- i have updated my phone and everything - it continues