MRYFLYGUY, I am not an expert by any means, but in saying that. Did you try what Bruce2125 suggested? I am thinking you probably did. I am running Mavericks and iPhoto 9.5.1 and his soulution has worked for me. I have to export one photo at a time and then they appear in "Last import", but it works. Granted it's slow, but it works.
I also had trouble with the dreaded "pin wheel". I just went into "Users and Groups" clicked on the "Login Items" tab and removed "itunes helper", but that's all I had in there. Now though, no more "Spinning Wheel Of Death" mocking me. I can always add back "itunes helper" if need be, just don't need it now though.
Hope this might help some, later.