I know you asked this a few days ago, and it's a little late to answer seeing as you've purchased the iLap, but for the sake of anyone who does searches about the fan, I'll throw my two cents in.
I haven't used the iLap, so I can't comment about it, but I received the Antec notebook cooler as a gift about two days after getting my MBP. The first two days without it, I noticed some very high temperatures with the MBP, as can be expected, and it was a little uncomfortable to keep my wrists resting on the book as I was typing. With the fan, it's noticeably cooler to the touch pretty much every place except the hinge area by the front of the screen. I haven't really checked the exact temperature difference because I mainly use the fan when gaming in Windows, but I have no complaints about it's performance, and to be honest, I was skeptical at first. The only thing I am not fond of is the holes in the aluminum top of the fan... the edges seem like they could potentially scratch the bottom of the notebook, although, after a week of use it hasn't happened yet. And the fan does make a soft noise while on, but my notebook doesn't moo or squeal, so I'm not complaining. If you are looking for something to keep as a barrier between your lap and notebook, it's not a good choice. It's nice for a desktop, though.