Well, thanks for the Lecture! I'd love to hear from Someone ELSE (the OP) about whether or not the problem still exists, is associated with any particular OS or versions, and what they did (if anything) to prevent iTunes from deleting files in the future?
Regarding the Lecture:
We're pattern seekers, but just because you think you see a pattern doesn't mean it is there.
It's there. And it was there for others in this thread. Just because we're pattern seekers doesn't mean it ISN'T there, what's your bias anyway? That attitude is great way to troll, and makes me totally uninterested in anything further that you might say to "help".
Either way think cockup rather than conspiracy, Apple have no motive to deliberately remove your data,
Perhaps it's a cockup, but it's a pretty serious cockup when a database program takes the initiative to delete files, rather than just fail to properly manage the data pointers. And the lawsuit mentioned above suggests strongly that Apple is aware of related problems, hides them, and doesn't care to fix them - and *that* is a conspiracy.
Ideally you would have had a robust backup strategy that would have not only preserved your data but warned you the first time something when missing.
I backup everything that is important to me: the music library isn't that important. And frankly, I've had problems with Apple's Time Machine software not overwriting old backups and therefore not working properly (a known problem with certain OS), as well as 3rd party cloud backup doing the same scary thing as iTunes (e.g. erasing files that it did not have authorization to erase... luckily infrequent and sorted with technical support). Despite problems with 3rd party cloud software and Time Machine, I have never lost anything *important*. But Cloud backup is expensive, so some of us make choices about what is important.
Regardless of importance, or how much backup up I do, or don't do - I think it is unacceptable for any database or cloud backup to fully delete files (there could be more checks, or manual input), and even more unacceptable for the company managing the software (Apple) to not address these problems. And every cloud backup I've used does exactly that - includes a second layer of safety for deleted files.