please if anyone has the driver for iphone 4s for windous

driver?

There is no separate driver. All necessary software is, or should be, installed when you install iTunes. What exactly is the problem or issue you're attempting to solve?

my 4s stuck on reset mode to itune,pc trying to update but no results?

Reinstall itunes. Make sure you have the most recent version.

Note the date on the post?

It would be best if you start your own topic with your issue rather than replying to someone else's thread, particularly one that's several months old.

Regards.