Itunes doesn't look right,

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Save the image. File>>Save As

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http://windows.microsoft.com/en-GB/windows-xp/help/setup/take-a-screen-shot

Meanwhile this may help you:

Short cut keys

ALT shows the menu bar temporarily

CTRL+B show/hide menu bar

CTRL+S show/hide side bar

CTRL+/ show/hide status bar

To make search more like it was, click on magnifying glass in search bar and uncheck "search entire library"

That is the Radio screen. What do you expect to see? If you want to see your music, click on the Music button.

Or do you mean you want to see the iTunes Store? You can see the Store button at the top right, it toggles between Store and Library

You're in the radio section of iTunes. Those are all Radio genres and your iTunes has opened to the last view you were in when you closed it.

Click on one of the options at the top of your screen!

mine looks like that and I can't even put my songs back into playlists. I don't even have half the songs that was on there before I updated. I don't like the play next or ups next junk they have added. I am to old to learn this mess. This is one of those cases, if it ain't broke don't fix it. I don't know how to get my play list and all my songs back on here. I know I have them saved on an external drive but I couldn't get them to come back on my itunes.

Can someone smarter than I tell me what and how to do iTunes

By enabling the side bar and selecting the "Songs" button, iTunes 11 feels alot more like iTunes 10,

http://www.ilounge.com/index.php/tips/comments/re-enabling-the-sidebar-in-itunes -11/

I have an iPod Touch 1 with ios 3.13 and it does show up in iTunes 11.

Try this,

Disconnect your iDevice

Reset your iDevice (no data or settings are lost)

Hold the sleep/wake button at the top right of the device and the home button at the bottom center of the face at the same time.

Hold both until you see the screen go black. In some cases, you may need to keep holding them even after the red power off slider appears. If it does, just keep holding it.

Wait until the white Apple logo appears and release both buttons.

Restart your computer (do not run iTunes after it reboots)

Plug in your iDevice to your computer using correct USB cable

You should here that Windows bong, bong sound.

Start iTunes if it has not already started automatically.

Does it show up now?

I see, you are using the newer iTunes 11 layout without the side bar.

For this you should just need to click on that "iPod" button in the upper right area of your screen.

After that it should be obvious.

Be sure to just click on the word "iPod" and not the Eject symbol right next to it.

Better yet, to enable the easier to use iTunes 10 sidebar see,

http://www.ilounge.com/index.php/tips/comments/re-enabling-the-sidebar-in-itunes -11/

Using the enabled sidebar, click on "iTunes Store" on the left side to bring up the store.

Note: The iTunes store can sometimes be temperamental, especially if you have a weak wireless connection. There could be other issues, such as the inncorrect time or such.