Hi danigoico,
I was hoping you and Lizzierose would see my post. Sometimes I get e-mail notifications, sometimes not. I had kept out the post in a window last night trying to figure out, given time posted, if/when you both might check might check today. (We're in USA on East Coast time, but it posts West Coast time...) I was happy when I checked my e-mail this am and saw that you, at least, got the post.
I hope you checked out you tube videos.
Just an fyi, I just orderred my father-in-law's ipad. We bought an ipad 2 16gb in the refurb store for $319.00. It wasn't our first refurb store buy. We were getting my husband one, and asked to to wait until the old, new, (discontinued after months) ipad came out so I could compare. Given what I researched, (some major heat on the back and lower battery time, attributed to the larger, faster battery for the retins screen) we decided to stick with the ipad 2. However, we couldn't find a new 32 gb anywhere. So for the first time we went to the Apple refurb store and given the price, we went for the 64 gb. When our younger son came home from college for the Summer, he loved the ipad 2 and so he got one. Both are very happy with them and no heat and about ten hours of battery time.
The ipads in the Apple refurb store come with new front and back covers, a brand new battery and a full one year warranty. It also ships in the same new box as a new ipad. There's just a little line that says it is a refurbished ipad. I have them shipped to an Apple Store near us and we had both set up there. If you're near one, you might want to do that. Just be sure you have the e-mail address of the person you're buying for, and ask that person to give you a new Apple ID password. They'll set up itunes, icloud, etc. They'll all have the same ID and they can have the same password. PLEASE write down the ID and password. You'd be amazed at how many posts are made asking for help because they forgot the password, and the problems that can create.
Please note that there can be a lot of turnover and what you want might disappear. When I ordered my husband's, it was on the site. When our son decided to get one, it took over two months for the 64gb to come back on the site. (I've been checking the site for a couple of weeks. No 32gb have been there and only black 16 gb. This morning, though, a white one showed up. 64 gb are usually there.) I'm sure, especially with Home Sharing and libraries, I think 16 gb would be enough. So if you consider a refurb ipad 2, I'd suggest you get it fast. You'd have 14 days to return it. Don't forget about a wireless router.
Whatever you decide, please let us know, and hopefully, this will help lizzierose, too.
Hope this helps!