Thank you for your help so far!
Here is the dump, exact command you asked for me:
tcpdump: verbose output suppressed, use -v or -vv for full protocol decode
listening on en0, link-type EN10MB (Ethernet), capture size 65535 bytes
07:49:47.358016 IP server.example.com.62607 > mailout.easydns.com.submission: Flags [S], seq 227513062, win 65535, options [mss 1460,nop,wscale 4,nop,nop,TS val 545134578 ecr 0,sackOK,eol], length 0
E..@.K@.@...
..........................
~..........
07:49:47.490355 IP mailout.easydns.com.submission > server.example.com.62607: Flags [S.], seq 1859218684, ack 227513063, win 5392, options [mss 1360,sackOK,TS val 2684869342 ecr 545134578,nop,wscale 7], length 0
E..<.}..+..j@D..
..............P...
.... ~......
07:49:47.490478 IP server.example.com.62607 > mailout.easydns.com.submission: Flags [.], ack 1, win 8256, options [nop,nop,TS val 545134710 ecr 2684869342], length 0
E..4U.@.@...
...n.l... @.......
~.v....
07:49:50.386634 IP mailout.easydns.com.submission > server.example.com.62607: Flags [P.], seq 1:40, ack 1, win 43, options [nop,nop,TS val 2684870066 ecr 545134710], length 39
E..[.J..+..~@D..
......+.......
.... ~.v220 mailout.easydns.com ESMTP Postfix
07:49:50.386765 IP server.example.com.62607 > mailout.easydns.com.submission: Flags [.], ack 40, win 8254, options [nop,nop,TS val 545137552 ecr 2684870066], length 0
E..45K@.@...
...n.m$.. >.......
~#.....
07:49:50.386939 IP server.example.com.62607 > mailout.easydns.com.submission: Flags [P.], seq 1:33, ack 40, win 8254, options [nop,nop,TS val 545137552 ecr 2684870066], length 32
E..T.O@.@...
...n.m$.. >.......
~#.....EHLO server.example.com
07:49:50.520512 IP mailout.easydns.com.submission > server.example.com.62607: Flags [.], ack 33, win 43, options [nop,nop,TS val 2684870100 ecr 545137552], length 0
E..4....+...@D..
......+-l.....
.... ~#.
07:49:50.521060 IP mailout.easydns.com.submission > server.example.com.62607: Flags [P.], seq 40:216, ack 33, win 43, options [nop,nop,TS val 2684870100 ecr 545137552], length 176
E....x..+...@D..
......+.......
.... ~#.250-mailout.easydns.com
250-PIPELINING
250-SIZE 26214400
250-ETRN
250-STARTTLS
250-AUTH PLAIN LOGIN
250-AUTH=PLAIN LOGIN
250-ENHANCEDSTATUSCODES
250-8BITMIME
250 DSN
07:49:50.521173 IP server.example.com.62607 > mailout.easydns.com.submission: Flags [.], ack 216, win 8243, options [nop,nop,TS val 545137682 ecr 2684870100], length 0
E..4.c@.@...
...n.m... 3.......
~$.....
07:49:50.535503 IP server.example.com.62607 > mailout.easydns.com.submission: Flags [P.], seq 33:39, ack 216, win 8243, options [nop,nop,TS val 545137696 ecr 2684870100], length 6
E..:y.@.@...
...n.m... 3.......
~$ ....QUIT
07:49:50.535511 IP server.example.com.62607 > mailout.easydns.com.submission: Flags [F.], seq 39, ack 216, win 8243, options [nop,nop,TS val 545137696 ecr 2684870100], length 0
E..4..@.@...
n.m... 3.......
~$ ....
07:49:50.667685 IP mailout.easydns.com.submission > server.example.com.62607: Flags [P.], seq 216:231, ack 39, win 43, options [nop,nop,TS val 2684870137 ecr 545137696], length 15
E..C....+.{.@D..
...+.......
.... ~$ 221 2.0.0 Bye
07:49:50.667755 IP mailout.easydns.com.submission > server.example.com.62607: Flags [F.], seq 231, ack 39, win 43, options [nop,nop,TS val 2684870137 ecr 545137696], length 0
E..4.f..+.k.@D..
...++......
.... ~$
07:49:50.667778 IP server.example.com.62607 > mailout.easydns.com.submission: Flags [R], seq 227513101, win 0, length 0
E..(B]..@...
....P.......
07:49:50.667784 IP server.example.com.62607 > mailout.easydns.com.submission: Flags [R], seq 227513101, win 0, length 0
E..(N...@...
....P.......
07:49:50.668098 IP mailout.easydns.com.submission > server.example.com.62607: Flags [.], ack 40, win 43, options [nop,nop,TS val 2684870137 ecr 545137696], length 0
E..4kD..+...@D..
......++......
.... ~$
07:49:50.668199 IP server.example.com.62607 > mailout.easydns.com.submission: Flags [R], seq 227513102, win 0, length 0
E..(Y=..@...
.......P.......
With the verbose flag -v turned on:
tcpdump: listening on en0, link-type EN10MB (Ethernet), capture size 65535 bytes
07:58:00.853798 IP (tos 0x0, ttl 64, id 61650, offset 0, flags [DF], proto TCP (6), length 64, bad cksum 0 (->3611)!)
server.example.com.62780 > mailout.easydns.com.submission: Flags [S], cksum 0x1407 (incorrect -> 0x1a09), seq 3293289800, win 65535, options [mss 1460,nop,wscale 4,nop,nop,TS val 545623935 ecr 0,sackOK,eol], length 0
E..@..@.@...
...@D...<.K.K.H.......................
...........
07:58:00.986539 IP (tos 0x0, ttl 43, id 6040, offset 0, flags [none], proto TCP (6), length 60)
mailout.easydns.com.submission > server.example.com.62780: Flags [S.], cksum 0xd7a5 (correct), seq 996714090, ack 3293289801, win 5392, options [mss 1360,sackOK,TS val 2684992715 ecr 545623935,nop,wscale 7], length 0
E..<....+.dP@D..
....K.<;h.j.K.I...........P...
. .. .......
07:58:00.986671 IP (tos 0x0, ttl 64, id 13705, offset 0, flags [DF], proto TCP (6), length 52, bad cksum 0 (->f166)!)
server.example.com.62780 > mailout.easydns.com.submission: Flags [.], cksum 0x13fb (incorrect -> 0xfa64), ack 1, win 8256, options [nop,nop,TS val 545624056 ecr 2684992715], length 0
E..45.@.@...
...@D...<.K.K.I;h.k.. @.......
.... ..
07:58:01.121725 IP (tos 0x0, ttl 43, id 9860, offset 0, flags [none], proto TCP (6), length 91)
mailout.easydns.com.submission > server.example.com.62780: Flags [P.], cksum 0xed3b (correct), seq 1:40, ack 1, win 43, options [nop,nop,TS val 2684992748 ecr 545624056], length 39
E..[&...+.UE@D..
....K.<;h.k.K.I...+.;.....
. .. ...220 mailout.easydns.com ESMTP Postfix
07:58:01.121847 IP (tos 0x0, ttl 64, id 38384, offset 0, flags [DF], proto TCP (6), length 52, bad cksum 0 (->90ff)!)
server.example.com.62780 > mailout.easydns.com.submission: Flags [.], cksum 0x13fb (incorrect -> 0xf998), ack 40, win 8254, options [nop,nop,TS val 545624190 ecr 2684992748], length 0
E..4..@.@...
...@D...<.K.K.I;h.... >.......
..~. ..
07:58:01.122020 IP (tos 0x0, ttl 64, id 49038, offset 0, flags [DF], proto TCP (6), length 84, bad cksum 0 (->6741)!)
server.example.com.62780 > mailout.easydns.com.submission: Flags [P.], cksum 0x141b (incorrect -> 0x60d1), seq 1:33, ack 40, win 8254, options [nop,nop,TS val 545624190 ecr 2684992748], length 32
E..T..@.@...
...@D...<.K.K.I;h.... >.......
..~. ..EHLO server.example.com
07:58:01.254622 IP (tos 0x0, ttl 43, id 46244, offset 0, flags [none], proto TCP (6), length 52)
mailout.easydns.com.submission > server.example.com.62780: Flags [.], cksum 0x196a (correct), ack 33, win 43, options [nop,nop,TS val 2684992782 ecr 545624190], length 0
E..4....+..K@D..
....K.<;h...K.i...+.j.....
. .. ..~
07:58:01.255017 IP (tos 0x0, ttl 43, id 48330, offset 0, flags [none], proto TCP (6), length 228)
mailout.easydns.com.submission > server.example.com.62780: Flags [P.], cksum 0x8ae8 (correct), seq 40:216, ack 33, win 43, options [nop,nop,TS val 2684992782 ecr 545624190], length 176
E.......+..u@D..
....K.<;h...K.i...+.......
. .. ..~250-mailout.easydns.com
250-PIPELINING
250-SIZE 26214400
250-ETRN
250-STARTTLS
250-AUTH PLAIN LOGIN
250-AUTH=PLAIN LOGIN
250-ENHANCEDSTATUSCODES
250-8BITMIME
250 DSN
07:58:01.255106 IP (tos 0x0, ttl 64, id 52726, offset 0, flags [DF], proto TCP (6), length 52, bad cksum 0 (->58f9)!)
server.example.com.62780 > mailout.easydns.com.submission: Flags [.], cksum 0x13fb (incorrect -> 0xf82e), ack 216, win 8243, options [nop,nop,TS val 545624321 ecr 2684992782], length 0
E..4..@.@...
...@D...<.K.K.i;h.B.. 3.......
.... ..
07:58:01.269489 IP (tos 0x0, ttl 64, id 45046, offset 0, flags [DF], proto TCP (6), length 58, bad cksum 0 (->76f3)!)
server.example.com.62780 > mailout.easydns.com.submission: Flags [P.], cksum 0x1401 (incorrect -> 0x5060), seq 33:39, ack 216, win 8243, options [nop,nop,TS val 545624334 ecr 2684992782], length 6
E..:..@.@...
...@D...<.K.K.i;h.B.. 3.......
.... ..QUIT
07:58:01.269515 IP (tos 0x0, ttl 64, id 32167, offset 0, flags [DF], proto TCP (6), length 52, bad cksum 0 (->a948)!)
server.example.com.62780 > mailout.easydns.com.submission: Flags [F.], cksum 0x13fb (incorrect -> 0xf81a), seq 39, ack 216, win 8243, options [nop,nop,TS val 545624334 ecr 2684992782], length 0
E..4}.@.@...
...@D...<.K.K.o;h.B.. 3.......
.... ..
07:58:01.402133 IP (tos 0x0, ttl 43, id 62865, offset 0, flags [none], proto TCP (6), length 67)
mailout.easydns.com.submission > server.example.com.62780: Flags [P.], cksum 0x7092 (correct), seq 216:231, ack 39, win 43, options [nop,nop,TS val 2684992819 ecr 545624334], length 15
E..C....+..O@D..
....K.<;h.B.K.o...+p......
. .3 ...221 2.0.0 Bye
07:58:01.402257 IP (tos 0x0, ttl 64, id 18386, offset 0, flags [none], proto TCP (6), length 40, bad cksum 0 (->1f2a)!)
server.example.com.62780 > mailout.easydns.com.submission: Flags [R], cksum 0x13ef (incorrect -> 0x42c9), seq 3293289839, win 0, length 0
E..(G...@...
...@D...<.K.K.o....P.......
07:58:01.402405 IP (tos 0x0, ttl 43, id 50603, offset 0, flags [none], proto TCP (6), length 52)
mailout.easydns.com.submission > server.example.com.62780: Flags [F.], cksum 0x17ee (correct), seq 231, ack 40, win 43, options [nop,nop,TS val 2684992819 ecr 545624334], length 0
E..4....+..D@D..
....K.<;h.Q.K.p...+.......
. .3 ...
07:58:01.402468 IP (tos 0x0, ttl 64, id 27815, offset 0, flags [none], proto TCP (6), length 40, bad cksum 0 (->fa54)!)
server.example.com.62780 > mailout.easydns.com.submission: Flags [R], cksum 0x13ef (incorrect -> 0x42c8), seq 3293289840, win 0, length 0
E..(l...@...
...@D...<.K.K.p....P.......