Hi Junie,
Okay. Your Mom does not have a computer. Is your computer near hers or is it a laptop that that you can bring back and forth to her to sync, etc. You'll then be able to sync her ipad. Never sync on any other computer. She could be locked out of her ipad for 90 days.
Wireless mobile routres do exist, but they're sort of expensive and not perfect, and they're limited to reading boks, watching movies, and music. Once she learns more, she'll want ot do more.
Also, you will have 90 days of phone support from Apple. They're great. And for acessibility questions, you can call their specially trained support staff with questions.
Does she have a cable modem to watch tv? That's important because she will need it to get an internet connection from her cable company so that she can set up and use a wireless router because otherwise, the ipad will be useless to her.
This internet connection is necessary (and not free.) Hopefully, some whiz will read this and say otherwise, but I did a lot of research because though my father-in-law is all set up with cable and internet, it took many phone calls an a couple of days to learn that he actually has a cable modem and did need a wireless router (can also be done through internet company but at a monthly cost.) It is a lot less expensive to buy one and set it up. They're pretty much plug and play these days. (Often, a cable company might be give you a discount on the monthly cost. Just go to the top. Call weekdays during the work week, 9 to 5 ish. )
Oh, great that you can do pictures. If done right, many can e-mail them to you. Does she still have friends from forever ago, where they or their children can send you pictures of your dad and her and old friends? Load your comuter with her old music cds that she might like to hear as she reads (set up sharing on i-tunes - you can make her a playlist.) What a great slide show with music that would be!
Can you get back to me on this cable subject when you have time?
Thanks!