I have good news. I left my macbook air on (disabled sleep mode), with automatic brightness, no programs running so that I could time the fully charged battery life. it got exactly 5 hours of battery life before it died (depressing). after it died i let it sit there for a few hours, like a naughty child in the corner.
then i plugged it back in, without turning it on, until it was fully charged and the light was green. when i finally turned it on, the battery meter said I had 13 hours of battery life left. this was higher than anything i had ever seen before.
thinking it was a fluke, i left it on again (disabled sleep, no programs running etc), and after 5 hours of sitting on, it still had 65% battery life left! i'm not sure what happened here. i assume the battery was recallibrated (even though i have been told numerous times that macbook airs come pre-callibrated and that this would be a waste of time).
Needless to say, I am extremely satisfied that I found the solution to this dilemma. If anyone else is having a similar problem I suggest you do what I did. I wish someone from apple supprort would have told me to do this. Clearing the p-ram did nothing. turning it off and restarting did nothing. I had to let the battery fully deplete, sit for a few hours, then charge it completely before turning it on.