I HAVE DONE IT !!! hahah
has only taken me 3hrs to figure this out lol
CLICK on the link below ....
http://www.wikihow.com/Delete-Music-on-Your-iPhone#Removing_Music_Using_iTunes_a nd_Your_Computer_sub
and follow the steps for ....
BUT before you start following the instructions make sure the
songs you are trying delete are in your iTunes Library and then
you'll be good to go 🙂
Method 3 of 3: Removing Music Using iTunes and Your Computer
once you have completed steps 1-9
scroll up the page to...
Method 2 of 3: Deleting Your Entire Music Library
and follow steps 1-3
once you have completed the steps all your annoying songs
that you cant delete will be deleted 🙂
HOPE THIS WORKS 🙂