"plugged it in and boom internet access. I ran software update on everything and brought it home and guess what? No access."
david_k,
Sounds like a problem with your line.
Last year I assumed that when my isp charged me a connection fee to hook up to dsl, that it would be a good connection. Worked fine for a week, then started getting iffy. I thought it was the modem, so I called and asked them for an RMA to return the modem they'd sold me. They gave me an 800# to call, I explained again to that person, they put me on hold, then came back and said they'd been able to do a line check.
There was something wrong, but they'd have to do a more in depth check over the next couple days to determine if it was my wire or their wire at fault. They called back two days later - it was their wire. It was fixed within 24 hours and I've never had another problem since. Good luck.