Ok, an update (see my previous posts if interested)
This regards specifically the problem with WiFi (sometimes) not connecting or taking a long time to connect after waking from sleep (or even after restarting the machine), only when BT is enabled. Turning WiFi "Off" then "On" (sometimes a couple of times) would get WiFi to connect to my (only) preferred network.
I installed a clean build of Mavericks for testing purposes. I installed to an empty Mac OS (Journaled) partition from an external drive using the Mac App Store installer so as to start from a truly clean install. I did not (re-) install from the Recovery Partition. So, 10.9.1 on a new partition - same machine, same SSD.
RESULT: That new, clean-install version of Mavericks appears to have no problems with WiFi connecting after sleep/restart when BT is enabled. The problem is GONE -- WiFi is connected, or connects, immediately. (I will report back if this changes.)
This got me thinking... I realized that my current production system was arrived at as follows: I got a new rMBP from Apple that came with Mountain Lion. I upgraded it to Mavericks. At that point I restored from a clone of an older rMBP, which had also been upgraded to Mavericks from Mountain Lion. (I might point out that the older, mid 2012 rMBP developed the same WiFi issue only upon upgrade to Mavericks.) And, you know the rest... I now had "The Problem" on the new machine.
So, this latest result -- namely a problem-free post-sleep WiFi with Mavericks -- suggests that the problem lies either with the system(s) having been upgraded from Mountain Lion to Mavericks (vs. a clean install of the latter). OR, my old rMBP had some "funky" setting that was the root problem and that just got cloned over to the new rMBP. Though, again, the problem only began on the "older" machine after I upgraded to Mavericks, so do the math on that...
In any event, emboldened by my findings, (1) I erased my current working system partition and (2) installed a clean version of Mavericks from scratch using the MAS installer. (3) I then used Migration Assistant to restore from backup my Docs and Applications but NOT the "Computer and Network Settings". Once that was complete, I booted into my clean install of Mavericks with all of my applications and documents in tact. A few things needed to be tweaked, but not much. The result is a (so-far) working machine with all my "stuff" in tact but without the WiFi problem that has dogged me since Mavericks' release.
I can't be sure whether my not restoring the Computer and Network Settings with Migration Assistant played any part here. It may be just the fact that the Mavericks install was a clean install (as opposed to a reinstall), or it may be some combo of both.
The upshot is that (at least for now, and in my case) it seems "the fix" (if you can really call it that) is a clean install of Mavericks (again, NOT a reinstall from the Recovery Partition). That done, the problem is gone....I hope!
I'll keep people updated if interested...
P.S. I know the list of "fixes" for this issue contains (as a last-ditch effort) the re-installing of OS X. Having had the problem on two separate machines, I had a feeling that wouldn't cut it. And I still doubt that it would. It has to be a new install it would seem. (But, again, without further testing I can't be certain.)