Ok this might be a solution for those with hardware alike problems.
it is not my solution. i got it from the famouse 131 pages thread. It is on page 124
propose by BananaMacintosh
https://discussions.apple.com/thread/1352518?start=1845&tstart=0
Here is how he describes the problem, which is pretty similar to my problem even if not identical
The issue
After a while of use, the wireless internet dies. The signal strength indicator fan in the top right corner still indicates five full bars. Right Clicking on the icon and clicking on "Turn wi-fi off" makes the fan icon go blank as it should, but the previously connected to network remains in the list check marked, which it shouldnt. All other wifi networks in the area disappear from the list. The status at the top of the drop down box says "Wi-Fi: looking for networks".
Right clicking on the icon and clicking on "Turn wifi-off" makes the icon go blank, as it should. Right-clicking on the icon and clicking on "Turn Wifi-On" does not enable the wifi. The fan icon stays blank, which it shouldnt. The previously "connected to" network remains checkmarked, but there is no connection to the internet.
Putting the laptop to sleep with the lid and waking it again results in five faded bars, but now no wifi networks can be found, and there is no connection to the internet. The issue occured round once a day at the beginning. By saving my work and rebooting the laptop, the issue has been manageable. However, it became unmanagable when it occured more and more often to the point where I had to save my work reboot my laptop every 1-2 hours of use.
He, as well as me and many others here, tried everything proposed.. with no luck
Than he opened the mac and found out that the cable of the airport might be damaged.
He posted the whole solution on is blog as well
http://warrantyvoidifremoved.blogspot.com/2014/01/repairing-intermittent-wifiwir eless-on.html
Probably the back of the cable is producing too much pressure of the cable.
Everything maks terrible sense.. sometimes my connection is perfect and every morning is gone...
My cat sits on my computer most of the mornings to wake me up.
i opened the computer, cleaned the cable (ordered a new one) and it seems to work so far...
If anybody else has a cat sitting on the computer and this issue, we might call it "the cat's infamous isssue"
good luck