Well, I sent feedback to Apple and asked if they were reading the forums...like I don't already know the answer. I finally got my husband to actually sit down and look at my computer, and my activity monitor. He's the IT expert, but hasn't had much time before now. And, he's not having a bit of problem with Mavericks on his laptop In fact, he loves it. So I don't think he was taking my complaints seriously. I'm not a computer illiterate, but my "expertise" goes back to the days of Cobol programming, lol. However, we've had home computers for about 25 years.
He is of the definite opinion that the computer needs more memory, which we ordered last night from Amazon. It's 8 GB's worth of Kingston memory, which will give me a total of 12 when it is installed. I think my model will hold a maximum of 16 GB. He never gave memory a thought before, because he didn't realize, or forgot, that my iMac only came with 4GB. If you read the updated information on the Apple site, regarding Mavericks, they recommend 4GB. I'm starting to think they mean 4 available GB just for the OS!
I only have 4GB on my Windows laptop, and have no issues. And, I really don't do anything differently on my iMac. The iMac OS must really hog a lot of memory. And, actually, after about the first two months with my iMac, which was purchased in mid 2011, some strange things started to happen. And, I'd occasionally get the spinning wheel of death. In fact, it was acting quite a bit like a PC! I'm starting to think that all of those problems were memory related also. These machines really need to come equipped with more than 4GB. Or, you just need to be ready to install extra memory as soon as you get one.
Apple screwed up big time with this! You can't tell me that nobody knew that this update was going to cause issues. I'm starting to think we got it free because we were unknowingly made the beta testers.
I'll post an update as soon as my new memory is installed. I'm hoping it will be here by early next week, and that it resolves the issues.