Okay, here's what I want. In the past, you could just do the whole "get info" thing, get a graphic, paste it to the icon and BAM, you had a new icon. You didn't have to copy and paste and rename and all this shazzam.
Most of my shortcuts are to network files that other people access. So...right now I change the icon of the original item, make the alias, put the alias on my desktop and then go back and revert the original file to its original icon. It's a pain, right? But there's STILL this problem where now if I make an alias of the file with the new icon, it reverts to the OLD custom icon, as was mentioned here. So...NOW not only do I have to take the multiple steps to get my alias with the right icon but I also have to rename the file and then hope the icon shows up after I reboot?
Ain't nobody got time for that!
On a positive note, at least the folders aren't disappearing anymore...