What a great tool, thanks for the link. This is what I see in my kernel list (after rebooting the problem disappeared):
Kernel Extensions:ⓘ
/Applications/Parallels Desktop.app
[not loaded] com.parallels.kext.hypervisor (11.2.2 32651 - SDK 10.9 - 2016-10-06) [Support]
[not loaded] com.parallels.kext.netbridge (11.2.2 32651 - SDK 10.9 - 2016-10-06) [Support]
[not loaded] com.parallels.kext.usbconnect (11.2.2 32651 - SDK 10.9 - 2016-10-06) [Support]
[not loaded] com.parallels.kext.vnic (11.2.2 32651 - SDK 10.9 - 2016-10-06) [Support]
/Library/Application Support/org.pqrs/Karabiner
[loaded] org.pqrs.driver.Karabiner (10.21.0 - SDK 10.11 - 2016-07-07) [Support]
/Library/Extensions
[not loaded] com.mice.driver.Wireless360Controller (1.0.0d14 - SDK 10.9 - 2016-10-29) [Support]
[not loaded] com.mice.driver.WirelessGamingReceiver (1.0.0d14 - SDK 10.9 - 2016-10-29) [Support]
/Library/StartupItems/BRESINKx86Monitoring
[not loaded] com.bresink.driver.BRESINKx86Monitoring (9.0 - 2013-04-13) [Support]
/System/Library/Extensions
[not loaded] com.AmbrosiaSW.AudioSupport (4.1.2 - SDK 10.7 - 2016-10-29) [Support]
[not loaded] com.dvdfab.kext.fabio (1.0 - 2016-10-29) [Support]
[not loaded] com.mice.driver.Xbox360Controller (1.0.0d14 - SDK 10.9 - 2016-10-29) [Support]
[not loaded] com.nvidia.NVDAStartupWeb (10.13.65 - OS X 10.7 - 2016-10-29) [Support]
[not loaded] com.nvidia.web.GeForceTeslaWeb (10.13.65 - 2016-10-29) [Support]
[not loaded] com.nvidia.web.GeForceWeb (10.13.65 - 2016-10-29) [Support]
[not loaded] com.nvidia.web.NVDAGF100HalWeb (10.13.65 - 2016-10-29) [Support]
[not loaded] com.nvidia.web.NVDAGK100HalWeb (10.13.65 - 2016-10-29) [Support]
[not loaded] com.nvidia.web.NVDAGM100HalWeb (10.13.65 - 2016-10-29) [Support]
[not loaded] com.nvidia.web.NVDANV50HalTeslaWeb (10.13.65 - 2016-10-29) [Support]
[not loaded] com.nvidia.web.NVDAResmanTeslaWeb (10.13.65 - 2016-10-29) [Support]
[not loaded] com.nvidia.web.NVDAResmanWeb (10.13.65 - 2016-10-29) [Support]
[not loaded] com.orderedbytes.driver.ControllerMateFamily (4.6.0 - SDK 10.6 - 2016-10-29) [Support]
[not loaded] com.seagate.driver.PowSecDriverCore (5.2.6 (26977) - SDK 10.4 - 2016-10-29) [Support]
/System/Library/Extensions/ControllerMate.kext/Contents/PlugIns
[loaded] com.orderedbytes.driver.CMUSBDevices (4.6.0 - SDK 10.6 - 2013-04-04) [Support]
[not loaded] com.orderedbytes.driver.CMUSBKeyboard (1.0 - SDK 10.6 - 2013-04-04) [Support]
[not loaded] com.orderedbytes.driver.CMUSBPointer (1.0 - SDK 10.6 - 2013-04-04) [Support]
/System/Library/Extensions/Seagate Storage Driver.kext/Contents/PlugIns
[not loaded] com.seagate.driver.PowSecLeafDriver_10_4 (5.2.6 (26977) - SDK 10.4 - 2015-01-31) [Support]
[not loaded] com.seagate.driver.PowSecLeafDriver_10_5 (5.2.6 (26977) - SDK 10.5 - 2015-01-31) [Support]
[not loaded] com.seagate.driver.SeagateDriveIcons (5.2.6 (26977) - SDK 10.4 - 2015-01-31) [Support]
I notice there are still NVIDIA drivers there even though I uninstalled it due to the Sierra bug of not coming out of sleep properly. But I still see it listed in the kernel - no way to remove it from the kernel directly?