00seven, sorry for the boggling i can relate, let me tell you !!
With Safari open -> Go to the " View "drop down menu
[ See the ] " Customise Toolbar "Click on the command :
The Big Customize Toolbar Drop down Opens,
See ->
The Toolbar called "Default Toolbar" click on that ( holding down on the mouse )
and drag it up to
"The Actual Safari Window that you want it to be on"
Then click on the other items you want, because you have only the Default Bar so far, with out the other goods and
drag those up to the
actually Safari toolbar that you want them, on one by one.
You can rearrange them in the order You Want when the Drop down "Customize tool bar " Dropdown is Open " only & by simply moving iitems around as you like.
I hope this helps make it clearer. Please let us know if it helps, I hope so.
Cheers!! ( back to sleepytime for me ; )
Eme'~[)
p.s Thank you iBod always generous 😉.