Doesn't look like you're getting much feedback here.
In the interest of not creating yet another thread for the same topic, I will provide detail on what I'm looking to do. Hopefully you don't mind @eldonp
My wife and I want to do Family Sharing with my 13 year old. I would like to approve all app purchases for the 13 year old, while allowing my wife to make purchasing without requiring approval. This works fine with multiple Apple ID's. Each device belonging to each person logs into iCloud and iTunes and App Store with their respective Apple ID's. The Organizer (me) can do anything he likes. Where the system falls short is others in the "Family" can't access iTunes Match music belonging to the Organizer.
Others on the plan CAN access purchased music in the above configuration but this doesn't do me any good, as a LARGE percentage of my library is RIPPED from CD's years ago. So, I'm logging each person into the iCloud account for that person, and logging them into the iTunes and App Store as the Organizer (me). This removes the ability of requiring approval for purchases. So, when the 13 year old wants to buy something, he has to come to me and have me log into my Apple account.
So, family sharing, in my case, ONLY gives me the ability to assign iCloud storage to each person in the family but that's it. I'm not even really sure if it's worth it.