Sorry, can't read the entire thread.
Let's start looking at the big picture. The trends, the changes. Someone needs to provide answers, those who set the trends. Individual issues are just symptomatic of a larger problem. I won't even go into the concept of sending a message by not using the software, but that just won't happen - there are just too many people who will put up with it.
Web navigation has been changing gradually over the last few years. One main shift from the norm was to hide the traditional menu bar by default. In Chrome, it's simply not there. I'm all for progress, as long as the end result is a real improvement. But the menu bar evolved over several years and became fairly standardized in all programs and across all platforms.
I just want a reasonable explanation as to why icons, ribbons and what not are supposed to be easier or more efficient. And that's comparing apples to apples, which means giving the new way a fair trial and using a program that way for a time.
I'm in the process of creating a website that will call out the offenders, take comments and feedback, work-arounds and more. All applications, programs, platforms and operating systems are included. Users may submit their own.
Change for its own sake is counter productive. It has become just a way for software developers to keep everyone feeling left behind and keeps the revenue stream flowing.
Another issue to be addressed is the over-use of modal window popups. These are just as bad if not worse than old style popups yet, where's the outcry now? Have we just given up? Modal windows should at least adhere to a standard, providing a clearly visibly close button. We need new pop up blockers for modal windows. Yes, it's harder to do because the technology used for these provides more legit and useful functions. But sorry, can't tell me it can't be done.
Apple, you should be ashamed - no longer leading the way, but following Google. Tsk tsk.