So, Apple confirmed the bug and has a workaround.
After 3 friendly 1st Level Support men (Apple Germany) , who could not really help, I reached a very friendly and competent Lady from 2nd level support on telephone. She studied this discussion forum for a while, checked her database and then confirmed the bug. It is in OSX 10.10.2 as we supposed, the engineering team knows of it and it will be fixed. She could not assure that it will be fixed already in OSX 10.10.3, but they are definitively working on it.
Meanwhile she has a workaround: Eject the external Thunderbolt drive in the Finder (right- mouse click, eject), as we all do. Now it is safe to pull the Thunderbolt cable and disconnect the drive. This will be survived by the Mac. And now it is obviously safe to turn off the completely electrically disconnectet drive without crashing the Mac.
HTH
Joachim Neudert, Herrsching, Germany.