Thanks for taking the time to reply.
Your response is actually a confirmation of what I was beginning to understand as I tried to locate an answer.
At the same time, like DrRubin I wish there was a way to "merge" this unfortunate AOL account with my current Apple ID.
Apple often states that only one ID is necessary for everything, and seems to push the idea of having only a single ID. They were
the ones who suggested using our AOL sign in for an Apple ID -- in my case it was in 2008. I have heard them say "no" to merging,
but I've never heard an explanation. Is it just that it would be difficult, or is it really impossible? If a single ID is really what they would
like, they should do all they can to "make it so!"
Anyway, I appreciate your answer and while I currently have only one email, I'm sure I can set up another with Gmail or Yahoo just for this.