I had the exact same problem in which I tried to upgrade from a 10.6.3 to 10.6.8 and after downloading the software from the internet I wasn't able to complete the task by "fully" restarting the computer so it could take effect. It instead went directly into the aura purple blank page. I finally, after waiting for a half hour, forced shut the computer to get me the heck out of there!
Now I did try the Mac OS X 10.6.8 Update Combo v1.1 that was recommended by "Babowa" and it did work for me!!! It enabled me to upgrade from 10.6.3 up to 10.6.8, awesome, many, many thanks for the tip and the link!! And my computer is now able to restart as well!
I am now stuck with a different problem though, I now need to acquire a startup disk in order to repair my HDisk. I went through "Disk Utilities", did the verification process, and it indicated that I need to restart my computer with a mac osx "installation disk" and then go through with the repair process. Only problem now is that my startup disk is a "Snow Leopard" 10.6.3 and my computer is now informing me that it "cannot install on this computer". Any thoughts anyone as to how I can remedy this problem? I'm new to this, and really appreciate all the help in this community!