Hey King, thanks for the tip, I needed to add one more step to make your instructions work and that was to do a systems reset on the phone by hitting the off button and the front bottom circle button and holding them down until the iphone restarted, at which point the selection of un-ticiking Apple Music finally worked.
I swear, when I saw an article that said Apple was building a huge new corporate headquarters and they said all great companies do this and then crater, I laughed, but now I believe it's true. Apple is no longer about serving its customers, it has morphed into Microsoft and their corporate ethic is now how can we trick people into giving us money on a monthly basis!