>I've put a little connector between A0 but that din't make a diffrence and A1 also din't do anything.
As I indicated above, the chosen SCSI ID is not really of importance, if between 0 and 6, providing that no external SCSI device is connected. So you should (typically) have no connectors/jumpers/clips at A0, A1 and A2 (resulting in an ID 0 for a single internal hard drive).
The only setting that could create a conflict (and error messages) would be ID 7 for the hard drive. ID 7 is reserved for the computer.
The hard drive is supposed to be terminated when in a Macintosh Classic. Some drives have a TE jumper position in order to enable termination. Your drive appears to use another method; termination is enabled by plugging in resistor packs. So, the resistor packs must be on the hard drive's controller board in this very case.
>could it be that i received a failed hard drive?
Yes, (if termination is OK, and there are no SCSI ID conflicts) one would at least suspect that, since the computer seems to run well without the hard drive. You should ask the seller whether the drive had been tested, in which computer, and how it had been formatted.
You may want to read more about SCSI. For example, try a web search for something like "Mac SCSI termination".