@Robber80,
To sum everything up what you have reached so far:
1. Initially, you had the lag on your 7, and your wife did not on her 6s.
2. You did a full reset (delete iphone) on both devices. Then restored your wifes backup to your iphone 7, and your own backup you have restored to your wife's 6s.
3. After this there is no lag on your 7, whereas there is a lag on your wife's 6s.
4. Then, you did a full reset (delete iphone) on both devices and set them up as new. No lag is present on both devices, even if in this step (after a full reset) the sim cards were switched.
5. In this step, after you made sure via numerous tests that both devices do not exhibit any lag, you switched the sim cards back to their original iphones.
6. Then you uploaded the backups (without resetting the iphones) to their original iphones (i.e. your backup to 7, your wife's backup to 6s).
7. There is the same lag on both devices, the length of the lag etc. is the same.
Please make corrections, precisions or additions to the above steps, if there is anything else. It is very important that we know the particular sequence that led to lag disappear and appear again (now on both devices). This will help with further investigation.
You have a very special case and only you have reached a great progress and gave hope to the affected users. Maybe together we will solve it. Now it is important be able to precisely recreate the steps that led to lag disappear.
Please also make sure that you do not delete/lose the backup of your wife, which you have created before doing all the tests. Maybe save it somewhere. The iphone backups are stored under: Mac HD/Users/username/Library/Application Support/MobileSync/Backup. That backup of your wife, that solved the issue on your iphone 7 can be the key.
@nazemg
Could you please describe what you did to get rid of the lag in your case, if you were able to? Or how other devices have gained the lag after being linked to your icloud? Did the lag on those devices disappear when unlinked from your icloud? Please give us more details.
@all
I gave it a chance again and resetted my iphone 7 (delete iphone) and installed as new, also did DFU, also with a completely new user (created new apple id), nothing helped unfortunately. What I still would like to test is to activate my iphone as new with the new sim card.