dnapolitano4is correct, but there's a bit more...
- Click on the "Calendars" button to close the sidebar.
- Size the window as you prefer.
- Restart your Mac.
- Open Calendar app.
- Click on the "Calendars" button to open the sidebar.
You can, now, safely resize your Calendar with the sidebar open and it will save the window size and the open/closed sidebar.
Warning: Rant Ahead - proceed with caution.
The one thing I hate about any app is being forced to hunt through Google to find the answers to an apps basic functions. It's as if Graphic User Interface design has been left to the programers and CEOs. Seriously, what in Apple's "Photos" app logo has anything to do with photos? AND they killed "Aperture"? All they had to do was buy teorex.com(awesome free apps - PS "content aware fill" isn't this good or easy) and add its functionality and extremely simple GUI to common photo editing hassles. Were all of the graphics designers at Apple fired?
I'll take skeuomorphism over obscure meaningless designs any day. Icons are suppose to make life easier, not a starting point for a morning of Google searching. I like the added whimsy in my work day.
Tiny text in tons of white space is a bizarre MS Windows design decision. My bank did it, too; tiny generic rectangles of a solid color as icons in separate locations on the screen. Why did Apple follow such a lame idea? I had to use numerous System Accessibility settings for my parents and myself just to make the OS X less of a hassle to use. I'm unemployed, can I get a job at Apple making MS-Windows-like icons with rectangles in Playskool colors?
I won't even get started on iTunes insane scrambling, shrinking and changing common icon images (often hiding) it's various functions and menu settings. They are beginning to get into "you must roll your pointer over every pixel to make the function become visible". Go ahead, play a song then resize the window to make a mini-player in the corner of your screen. If you've never stumbled over it, it's faster if you Google the solution than try to find it.
Steven Paul "Steve" Jobs (February 24, 1955 – October 5, 2011)
The king has died, the magic is gone, and Camelot has become just another crumbling ancient castle on a tourist Google (not Apple) map; a tale we can tell our grandchildren of a land with magical devices, nearly mind-reading user interfaces, with spectacular announcements and major technology advancements. They once had beautiful stores, filled with industry-leading products, it was like stepping into the future, manned by knowledgeable experts, artists and technicians, no appointment needed, free bottles of cold water if you had to wait.
Our children won't believe us.