withaheartofstone wrote:
I have location services turned off everywhere, it's not a location thing. That wouldn't be an option anyway since what has been happening is this person who I suspect has been remotely accessing my iPhone always posts things or say things that are things I was talking to my friends about very prior to which. As I said, if this only happened once or twice I wouldn't be concerned that it was a hacking thing, but it has happened a lot. Especially considering this guy has taunted me in the past, he's capable of anything. I know all I'm gonna get is "it cannot be hacked" or whatever, but if there was any way I could just CHECK, it would help a lot.
There are no ways to 'just check' for hacks like you describe (unless you have studied these devices & understand computer forensics).
If you are convinced it is 'hacked' seek professional help. The police may help or you may need to see a professional forensic investigator. It isn't cheap & may prove to be fruitless, but this could be a criminal case if true, so it shouldn't be taken lightly. Establishing a case history may help in the future if you find better evidence or if the issue escalates etc. At the very least keep a log of events, is it possible one of your friends are actually hacked instead? Isn't it possible for one of them to actually communicate with the person despite what you said earlier?
You should review where & to whom you said these 'secret things', there is potential for many other systems to be hacked or abused.
Wifi networks can be compromised for example, they may leak some information if apps have poor security, especially if you use public networks with no encryption or use WEP (encryption that is very broken) at home or work. Reset the network settings on iOS to remove all the remembered networks if you can handle entering the passwords next time you need that network.
Email can be accessed if passwords are known, enable 2 step/ 2 factor authentication on any account that supports it to reduce the potential risks, ideally registering a device that you don't think is 'hacked'.
Phone messages can often be accessed via mailboxes that have a default password - have you set one? Consult you carrier for info.
Also be aware that iTunes backups can be read by anyone with access to that computer. Do you sync to a Mac or PC? Could that be hacked? Data can be accessed from backups unless you enable backup encryption - do not forget the password if you enable that option. Once again - if you think the computer is 'hacked' it can't be trusted.
I have no idea if you are hacked, I doubt the average person can hack into iOS, however vulnerabilities are found & fixed all the time, so it isn't impossible, just improbable. You need to be very careful about leaping to conclusions, humans can find patterns where non exist.
Good luck.