@deggie,
You have demonstrably the most unhelpful posts in this whole thread. And now you've added condescension to your list of accomplishments. If only I had an "Unhelpful" button to click in response to your post.
I have no interest in debating my needs, or your warped and hyperbolic rhetoric with you. Much of what you state as fact is truly baseless conjecture and opinion. You miss the point, are rude, judgmental, obtuse, and counter-productive, not to mention frequently wrong.
I'll wish you a good day, as I will not be conversing further with you and giving you a sounding board on which to exercise your unfortunate soapboxing.