how to put music on iphone 7 with itunes

Hello,

I have recently purchased an iphone 7. I restored it from a backup of my iphone 6. My music on the phone has disappeared and when I sync the device, there is no option to select the music I want to put on my phone. Not all of my music is purchased from iTunes so it wont be sitting in the cloud where I can listen to it only in WIFI. This is really annoying. I don't have the option to select what I want, the message that appears on screen is this: iCloud Music Library is on. iPhone can access your iCloud Music Library. Songs can be downloaded and played via WIFI or a cellular network.

How do I fix this? I want my music on my iphone. H