a process called softwareupdated is taking sometimes as much as 300 MB of RAM what is it and how can get rid of it
MacBook Pro, macOS Sierra (10.12)
You are referring to the Software Update daemon which always runs on a reboot, and periodically thereafter looking for updates to the operating system, and applications. This is a normal process, and it may use more, or much less memory than what you show, depending on what it is doing. Don't mess with it.
a process called softwareupdated is taking sometimes as much as 300 MB of RAM what is it and how can get rid of it