Sorry, not sure what you are asking? If the person has Read Receipts turned on on their Messages app, then you will receive a notification (courtesy of them) that the message has been read. If they turn it off, then you won't receive a notification indicating that the message has been read.
Since this is a completely voluntary setting that the user can turn on as a courtesy, not sure what your question regarding proof as to whether it is off or on is? Can you clarify what the issue may be?
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