It took a while but I found the solution:
1: Go to this website and follow the instructions for starting a new "Station".
https://www.iphonelife.com/blog/31936/tip-day-how-organize-podcasts-stations
2: Create a New Station. I called mine "The way I like it"
3: Set it to play Newest to Oldest.
4: Leave Group by Podcast "off".
5: Include, I did the last 3 but you can do most recent 2. If you select most recent it will not pull any episodes in.
6: I chose Media type "Audio".
7: Unplayed Only is turned on.
8: Choose Podcasts, I chose all.
9: Go back to "Library".
10: Select the station you created and enjoy what was so easy before.
If your episodes did not populate then close the app and reopen it.
Now go to "Library" instead of "Listen Now" and open your new station.
Apple, I'm not a computer person and have used your products since the Mac SE30. I'm super disappointed that you made this so difficult. I no longer update to your new OS software until I'm forced to and am constantly disappointed by the decisions you have made for me. When you make changes, make sure we have the choice to keep things as they were. That's all many of us are asking for.