Recover apple id

Five asterisks doesn't mean that there are five missing letters, it could be any length - the number of asterisks that show is fixed.

If you can't reset the account's security questions contact Support in the country where you are (and which is therefore the country on your account) and see if they can reset them, and re-enable the account, for you : Contact Apple for help with Apple ID account security

If your country isn't on that page try this form to contact Support : https://www.apple.com/emea/support/itunes/contact.html

It doesn't have to be five or more letters, it could be just 2 letters - the number of asterisks is no indication of the length. Those that begin with 'm' and end in .com include @me.com, @mac.com, @msn.com etc.

If you don't know what you set the email address to be contact Support as per my first reply

The rescue email address is not the same as the primary email address on an account, they have to be different - if you've locked the iTunes account it shouldn't have locked the different rescue email account.

To be able to log into that email account you would have to know what email address you set it to be, and the password to access that email account.