Unfortunately, I am another user who has been on the Mac bandwagon since 1985, paying too much because we believed in the reputation of Apple. Having been involved in IT since the late 60s, I had the opportunity to have hands-on trials of a number of early personal computers. I wasn't overly impressed by the Apple II. A friend bought one of the original Macs in 1984, and when I got a change to try using it, I said to myself, "Finally, a home computer I would actually want to own!"
I was looking forward to going through all the attachments (in the last few years) in Mail to extract all the photos I've not taken the time to store in Photos. I felt no need to hurry, just wanted to wait for a time when job and family stresses were lessened. Unfortunately, they are not accessible, since I used a large number of Rules to automatically sort and file incoming mail into various mailboxes. As first, I thought it was an anomaly, when the attachments would not open and just showed "Downloading..." indefinitely. Can't describe how I felt when I realized the truth.
In the last few years, in my opinion, Apple has morphed into, "just another computer maker", with the exception that their hardware and software are still priced too high. And now, considering the persistent lack of response to known issues, the over-pricing is no longer warranted. I've owned a Fat Mac, Mac Plus, Mac Classic, Mac Classic II, Mac IIvx, Mac Centris 650, original iMac (68000-series one-piece), G3 laptop, G3 tower, G4 laptop, G4 tower, G5 tower, Mini iPad, iPhone 4s, 12.9" iPad Pro, iPhone 6, and an iMac 26".
I just bought a Dell laptop (for less than 20% of what my iMac 26" price) and I am working my way through transferring everything. Enough is enough. I am sad, but the reality is that Apple is no longer Apple.