Update to prior post: Problem found!
After multiple hours on the phone with Apple Supervisors and a visit to the Genius Bar, they identified that the “teeth” inside the lightning jack with which the headphone jack makes contact are bent or broken on my phone. So, the phone thinks headphones are connected but cannot find them. Explains why I cannot hear audio, except on bluetooth (BT overrides the headphone) and wont recognize the plugged in headphones but still charges (the charger makes contact at a different point inside the jack). Solution unfortunately was to replace my phone. They took it in as a “warranty upon a manager override so I did not argue