High Sierra rendered my 2012 MB Pro nearly useless, while my 2011 iMac with identical i5 CPU, system and applications hummed along smoothly. The problem turns out to be that the OS is optimized for SSD storage, and it will bog down horribly if storage I/O isn't as fast as it expects. I upgraded the MB Pro to an SSD, and the machine instantly became wildly fast and glitch-free. The 4 GB of RAM is more than enough for routine work, w/ MS Office, a browser, and Acrobat reader all in use - probably because caching is so effective with an SSD.
The giveaway was the one difference between the machines: the iMac already had an SSD. The upgrade is a no-brainer at today's prices; my 500 GB SSD was $45 delivered. More effective than a memory upgrade, and cheaper to boot. Just do it, folks.