Apple Support Communities is primarily an end-user to end-user (i.e., users like you helping other users) technical issue support feature. Feedback for Apple will likely get more attention if you send it using:
I hear you but Apple is a for-profit corporation. It has long been their policy to have a limited support period for its hardware even though the hardware often remains operational long beyond that period (well, it used to but I am not so sure about newer things). Technology advances quickly and as long as the are many people who are eager to buy the newest gadgets then that's where the focus will be.
If there is a specific problem then you may wish to post on the iTunes for Windows forum (this is the iTunes for Mac forum), describing the issues you are having. There may be reasons and solutions for your phone behavior but "ape crazy" isn't providing sufficient description for me to even make a start at helping you. 🙂