I understand that your Game Center ID is saying that it is disabled for security reasons, but you're having some issues resetting your password. I'm happy to provide some help for this issue.
Creating a Game Center ID requires an Apple ID. If you've forgotten the email address that was used, you can use the steps in the article below to help with this:
If you forgot your Apple ID - Apple Support
Then follow the steps below to help with your locked or disabled Apple ID:
If your Apple ID is locked or disabled - Apple Support
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