Sorry for blowing up the comments section in regards to your suggestion, but it has successfully worked! Thank you so much Patrick, I have such relief you have no idea. I almost started crying going through this entire forum. But your suggestion is the only thing that worked! Thank you again.
For anyone else trying: after you have completed his steps as listed.... once restarted, the mac should turn back on and continue updating (45minutes- 1hr or so) but this time FULLY updating and bringing you back to user logins screen. Basically, you will now have OS x High Sierra. Don’t worry, all your data and everything will be there still.
For those traumatized from the High Sierra upgrade, I’m not sure that I would uninstall it just because of the heartache that went along with installing it in the first place. Not sure what more problems you may have by trying to downgrade back to the older OS’s like El Capitan or Yosemite. So, just keep the High Sierra.