Hi,
This is the closest I have seen.
https://gist.github.com/nschum/1cf00aee2f1ac8869df4
NOTE I have not tried this.
It is based for Yosemite when some of these Incompatible files first showed up.
If you read through you will see it seems to have something to do with the Darwin version changing.
If you are beyond Yosemite that you will need to make other changes regarding merging with a different Darwin version.
If...
You are talking about two computers and one has been Off Line for a while regarding the iMessages server then the iMessages servers may (I repeat May) catch up some of the more recent iMessages.
It's sort of expected that a computer may be Off line to the iMessages servers for a holiday or similar gap.
Unless you removed that computer from the listing at the iMessages servers then it should try to update the "missing" iMessages it has not received.
This is because each Login is based on the devices Serial Number making them Device Specific.
That said I feel you are saying this has not worked for you. That would seem to fit the posts here that it is still a hit and miss affair.
9:11 pm Sunday; March 4, 2018
iMac 2.5Ghz i5 2011 (Sierra)
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MacBookPro 2Gb (Snow Leopard 10.6.8)
Mac OS X (10.6.8),
iPhone 6 iOS 11.x and an iPad (2)