Alrighty then!
I did as you said: Opened up Airport Utility, Settings -> Manual Settings, Internet, NAT and "Enabled default host" and set the IP address, and had the AEBSn update.
Then on the Windows laptop, I opened the Cisco Systems Wireless LAN adapter settings, modified the WAN settings to not use DHCP, set the IP address to the same as the one I set under "Enabled default host", set the subnet mask to the same as indicated in the airport utility under internet connection, and set the default gateway to what you said to set the router to. I also added the DNS servers listed under the airport utility internet connection. I connected to the network, opened up the Nortel Contivity VPN client and it connected just fine.
Thank you, thank you, thank you.
I was able to set up my old AEBSg to extent the g network out into the woods (in case I get a sever case of hermititis) after figuring out you needed to add the AEBS mac address, not the name, and set up the main one first (duh).
I'm a happy camper - Thanks folks!
iMac G5, 3 G4 Mac Mini's, 1 nasty windows laptop Mac OS X (10.4.4) Apple Extreme Base Station (n) with extended WAN using older AEBS (g)