iPhone data download using HOTSPOT
Gosh, this is confusing. I recently traded in my older iPhone 6s and bought a new iPhone XS. I choose to use a wired connection to iTunes (from the iPhone to the computer running iTunes) to do backups and perform updates. I have a perfectly good and available WiFi home network that I always check to ensure that it's working OK before attempting to download any iPhone updates.
I've done TWO updates since buying this new phone. The first time I noticed, sort of after the fact, that the clock in the upper left of my new iPhone was lit with a blue border around it which I've since looked up and that appears to mean
"Your iPhone is either providing a Personal Hotspot or an app is actively using your location".
And whoa, I shortly after came to see that my phone sure enough had decided sort of on its own to connect to my computer as a personal HOTSPOT even though the computer didn't seem to think so???? There went about 3 GB's of cellular data down the toilet???
And then it gets worse. So today was the 2nd update. Before I did the update, I not only checked to make sure my WiFi network was working OK but I also went in and double checked on the iPhone to see that the Personal Hotspot button was set to OFF. Now I've seen this button before turn itself ON under circumstances I don't understand but it didn't do that today. I looked at it multiple times and it was OFF. And my computer showed that my network connection was via my home WiFi network. And I had a cable connection between my phone and the computer, which is needed (I think) for iTunes to see the phone so I can do a backup and the update.
Anyway, while the process went on, I noticed that, oh my, the blue was again surrounding the clock on my iPhone XS and when I would close the cover and reopen, it would open to show the HOTSPOT icon in the upper left corner where that clock would normally sit if I went ahead and logged in to the phone???? What??? While this was happening I went into the settings and noted that the Personal Hotspot STILL SHOWED AS BEING OFF...!!!! But it wasn't until I took even another step of TURNING OFF the CELLULAR connection that that hotspot messaging finally went away. But I fear it was again too late and that yet again I inadvertently used my cellular plan to download this multi GB update.
So what am I doing wrong??? Do I have to turn off BOTH the PERSONAL HOTSPOT and the CELLUAR DATA before I do these updates??? I'm certainly tired of wasting cellular data over something I thought I understood but clearly don't. Do I need to change some setting to force the use of my WiFi network to download update data??? Again, what am I doing wrong??? Any help would be much appreciated... thanks...
MacBook Pro with Retina display, macOS High Sierra (10.13.4), late 2016 model with Touch Bar