You will need to boot the machine to an OS other than the OS 9 on the hard drive. That means any disk the machine can boot to - it does not have to be an OS 9 Install CD. It can be a CD for a utility such as DiskWarrior, TechTool, or even Norton Utilities.
Once booted to a different OS, go into the System Folder on the hard drive, then into the Preferences folder. Locate the file named Multi-User Prefs and throw it away.
If you just can't find a bootable disk, you may be able to use Firewire Target Disk Mode to gain access to the files on the hard drive -
Article #58583 - Firewire Target Disk Mode
Note that the machine with the password problem would need to be the one set up as the Target machine.