Yes, the reason many of us use a Macintosh instead of XWindows is that we do not want to think.
Yvan's point bears mention, namely that there is no such thing as a zipless interface. There are general conventions you need to understand and there are conventions specific to your choice of application that you also need to understand. If you do not understand the general conventions, you have little chance of understanding the conventions specific to your chosen application.
One such basic convention in ICC colour management is which rendering intent to select from source RGB ICC colour spaces to destination ICC CMYK colour space for the printing condition. That should be set to Perceptual which produces softclipping in the shadows instead of linear clipping, and is the rendering intent designated in the original framework for this purpose.
Setting the rendering intent to Relative Colorimetric is setting the rendering intent to one of two proofing transforms, this one without paper white simulation. "So, my missing manual for Adobe software says to set RC." Well, Adobe has a non-standard rendering intent, RC with black point compensation, which is backward compatible with Adobe's obsolete PostScript CMS.
If you line up two versions of the selfsame model shot with delicate hair detail, setting Perceptual will preserve the delicate detail better than setting Relative Colorimetric with BPC. And if RC with BPC is not supported by the ICC implementation you are using, you will get RC without BPC and that is not what you want to get. So, there are no simple answers.
In technical terms, what manner of beast are the PDF filters in ColorSync? The answer to this is that Apple has provided fairly powerful fallback ICC functionality since ColorSync 2.1. In that timeframe the Apple ColorSync Plugins offered ICC support for raster imaging in Adobe Photoshop, which was not colour managed until version 6, and presently the ColorSync PDF filters provide ICC support for any application that uses the system services for colour management.
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