I have a late 2008 2.53 GH MBP that has this exact same problem. One day last week I was connected to my work LAN via Gigabit ethernet and, when I tried to re-connect later that same afternoon, it was as if the ethernet port had "died". No matter what I, or my IT staff, tried, in "System Preferences" it always appeared as if the cable were un-plugged. Extremely frustrating! Took it to the local Genius Bar this morning and it was diagnosed as a bad logic board!