I had the same problem and have been following this forum and a few others for the last couple of months.
I purchased my MacBook Pro with 2Gb (hynix) of RAM. Then I upgraded to 4Gb from Crucial. Since I did that, I have had the same random freezes everyone else has been experiencing. From all of my checks and swapping around of memory (worked fine with 3Gb installed), I was convinced that it was a problem with the MacBook. I took it to an Apple service center and they kept it for 3 days and came back and said that all tests ran without fault. The same day I got it back, it froze again as it typically did at least once a day. From all of the feedback in the forum, it seems as though those persons using Samsung memory modules had no problems plus I found another forum where one person who sells and services MacBooks Pro said that they realized they (late 2008 model) had this problem from day 1. From his observations, he also concluded that Samsung memory was the only one that seemed to work without the random freeze.
I have since purchased 2 Samsung 2Gb RAM modules and replaced the crucial sticks. My Mac has been running all day without any freeze. I will monitor further but so far so good.
Just thought this may help out as I know how frustrating this problem can be.
I purchased the Samsung memory from OWC -
http://eshop.macsales.com/item/Samsung/8566DSM3S2GB/